| Spoke negatively about me to our child - bad-mouthing. | | | | | |
| Interrupted, blocked, or ended my phone or video calls with our child. | | | | | |
| Scheduled activities that made the child miss my contact time. | | | | | |
| Hid, threw away, or refused to deliver cards, gifts, or letters from me. | | | | | |
| Told our child I am dangerous, untrustworthy, or mentally unstable. | | | | | |
| Made the child feel he/she had to choose between parents. | | | | | |
| Said or implied that I do not really love the child. | | | | | |
| Shared adult legal or financial details to turn the child against me. | | | | | |
| Pressured the child to reject or confront me directly. | | | | | |
| Asked the child to obtain information or documents about me - spying. | | | | | |
| Instructed the child to keep secrets from me. | | | | | |
| Encouraged the child to call a step-parent, eg. Mom or Dad. | | | | | |
| Addressed me by my first name when speaking with the child. | | | | | |
| Changed or tried to change child surname to exclude mine. | | | | | |
| Undermined my household rules or authority in child presence. | | | | | |
| Tried to make the child emotionally dependent by over-indulging or favouring. | | | | | |
| Withheld important information like school events, medical appointments, etc. | | | | | |